many yet times in life, the most difficult task is to cook up some courage and accept the most difficult circumstances in life.
this is also something which we all dread.
we are afraid of accepting the fact that we failed in the exams; we are afraid of accepting the fact that our ex is already going out with a chick; we are afraid of accepting the fact that we have to move away, and go to an alienish city.
we are "afraid".
i've been a victim of this.it happened when i got the news that i had to leave chennai, cv and danny and live in gurgaon. it was agonising. but i had no choice.
of course, i could cry myself to sleep, saying that i'll settle down well, have better friends and freak out more. my friends were a great support and told me that they'll call up every week. they tried every possible way to make me happy. we promised each other that we will always remain best friends. my parents told me that i can get back danny once we come back.
every possible method was tried out to convince me.
but...i just couldn't accept it.
how can i ?
many people find it difficult to come out of long-time relationships.they dwell in the past.
that's the mistake we do.
we live in the past.we think about the future.but we NEVER live the present.
and that's why we find it difficult to accept.
because we are constantly thinking about the bitter sweet memories and the rich future that awaits us.
we don't realise that only if we start living the present, we will learn how to face the world and accept things as they flow in.
it takes time for us to accept the present because..we can't let go of the past.
unfortunately, the past always contains the sweetest memories yet painful ones.
it is those memories that we want to cling to; we are afraid if we will leave it and vanish into thin air.
but we should also know that the future can be MUCH better.
for that, all we need is time, oh, the great healer- which is faster than the blink of an eye.